This is it, you think to yourself. This is when something is going to go seriously wrong.
Your heart rate spikes out of nowhere and you notice your hands are sweaty and shaking. It feels like someone turned the thermostat to 90 degrees. You try to push your fears aside and continue working, but your concentration is long gone.
Is something wrong with me? I feel like I’m going to pass out. I have so much work to do. What if I can’t get it all done and lose my job? Are we okay financially? What will my kids do?
You shoot out of your chair and walk past your colleagues as calmly as you can, not a single one noticing anything out of the ordinary.
Why am I the only one feeling this way?
As you escape out of your office to the fresh air outside, your hyperventilating slows and you begin to regain your composure. Why does this keep happening to you? Is there a way to fix it? Maybe some wine could help take the edge off.
This is what anxiety can look like. It’s ugly and terrifying and leaves many women like you grappling with the fallout. And for some, alcohol or drug use is seen as an effective and easy way to cope.
Anxiety Disorders as a Woman
Anxiety disorders affect nearly 265 million people across the globe, but women are twice as likely to suffer from an anxiety disorder. While it may help to know you’re not the only one struggling, it doesn’t help you get to the bottom of your anxiety and figure out how to cope with it. So, let’s take a closer look at some of the questions you may be wondering about anxiety.What is an Anxiety Disorder, Exactly?
Anxiety is actually a normal reaction to stress. It’s that internal alarm that goes off, warning you of danger and telling you to be on alert. The problem is when this normal anxiety becomes excessive and leaves you in a constant state of fear, dread and worry that impacts your ability to function. Some of the most common anxiety disorders include:- Generalized Anxiety Disorder – This disorder is characterized by chronic anxiety that isn’t provoked by anything in particular.
- Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) – OCD is characterized by unwanted, obsessive thoughts, followed by compulsions like constant handwashing or counting to help temporarily relieve the anxiety.
- Panic Disorder – This disorder consists of episodes of intense, debilitating fear. Those struggling with panic disorder often have physical symptoms like chest pains, dizziness, stomach pains, etc.
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) – PTSD is often triggered by a traumatic event that happened to you or that you witnessed. Those struggling with PTSD tend to suffer from symptoms like flashbacks and nightmares.
- Social Anxiety Disorder – This disorder is diagnosed when a person suffers from such intense self-consciousness that they are unable to speak, eat or even interact with others in public.